We humans tend to feel insecure about our imperfections, which actually make us unique and attractive to others. Even studies claim that ‘going with our flaws’ is one of the best ways to love yourself and make yourself more attractive.
Today we’d love to share some of these blemishes and how they actually make you more attractive than you are in the first place.
What flaws make you more attractive?
You get obsessed with things easily
It’s great to love something deeply, but when it costs you your health and your relationships, then that’s a problem. On the other hand, obsession can be powerful. When you are obsessed with something, you believe it with all your heart.
Obsessive people know that if they define something, they will do it anyway. So whether it’s music, writing, or a hobby, let it lead you to success.
You tend to share things too much
It can be problematic when you reveal too much information to the wrong people in the wrong settings. But if you’re building new relationships or deepening bonds with people, it doesn’t have to be a bad thing.
according to a theory, to develop closeness and intimacy, sharing your personal data little by little works like a charm. You may feel uncomfortable being vulnerable at first, but over time it helps the relationship thrive.
You depend on people who support you in your goals
It’s great to be someone’s best friend. But the most important thing is when you have someone who supports you and encourages you in what you believe in. People usually don’t ask for help because they are afraid it will make them look weak, but they don’t know that it is a sign of absolute strength to ask for help.
Don’t assume they will do everything for you, but let them give you the support you need.
you like to gossip
Almost everyone hates gossip. Certainly some types of gossip can be harmful, but studies say the exact opposite. Some types of gossip tend to save people from harm by alerting them to bad people or situations.
Gossip may seem insignificant at first, but it can be helpful in keeping potential victims safe and controlling potential exploiters.
You stand up for yourself in a way that some may consider rude or mean
Sometimes you don’t feel like meeting people, getting a certain job, moving to a new city or saying yes, because you prioritize yourself first. The best thing you can have is your time, not your money.
Once the time is up, it’s over. So be selfish and ruthless if someone is not worth your time and energy. You can’t please everyone, you are a human being, not an ice cream cone.
you take things easy
People always rush to get things done. Go to numerous parties, chat with as many people as possible, etc. You can’t understand this rush. You are more used to enjoying life by taking it easy.
You focus on talking to a few people, doing a certain amount of work, and doing your best to achieve your goals. You prioritize quality over quantity to enrich your life.
How are your failures really a blessing in disguise for you? Let us know in the comments below.