We want to share this article with you, which we think can help you figure out why this is happening.
10. We are not prepared
We are often not ready to commit, sacrifice and love unconditionally. We don’t want to wait, we need to have everything at once.
We don’t allow our feelings to grow, often putting a “time limit” on what we think we should feel and when.
9. We confuse love with other feelings
Many times, we want to find someone to join us at the movies or in a nightclub, not someone who can understand us and support us in a moment of deep sadness.
We do not like to lead a boring life and therefore we are looking for a happy partner who can turn our life into an adventure.
But we are not always prepared for the changes, which inevitably happen after a certain period of romantic and mutual affection.
8. We get stuck in a rut
After a while, we have no time or space for love, because we are too busy chasing material benefits.
7. We are waiting for an immediate result
When we fall in love, we already want our relationships to mature. However, that maturity, as well as mutual understanding, can only come after spending years together.
Most people today think that there is nothing in this life worth their time and patience, even love.
6. We prefer to waste our strength
Many of us would probably rather spend an hour with a hundred different people than a day with just one. Today there is an opinion that it is much better to meet people than to meet them.
We are greedy and want everything at once. We start relationships and end them as soon as we find a “better” variant.
We do not give the best to a person, but we want them to be perfect. We go out with a lot of people, but we hardly give anyone a chance.
5. We become dependent on technology
Technology has brought us together. We are so close that sometimes it seems difficult to breathe. In many cases, text messages, voice messages, chats and video calls have replaced face-to-face communication.
We no longer need to spend time together. We already know a lot about each other. We have nothing to talk about.
4. We cannot stay in one place for long.
We think that we are not cut out for relationships, and even the idea of settling down scares us. We no longer dedicate our lives to a single person and avoid everything that is permanent.
3. We become ‘sexually liberated’.
Our generation has separated sex from love. People first have sex and then decide if they want to be together.
Today, sex outside of marriage is normal, and things like “open relationships,” “friends with benefits,” and “one night stands” have become a part of modern life.
2. We rely on logic too often.
Few people of the younger generations can love with all their hearts and overcome the difficulties linked to time and distance.
1. We are afraid of too many things
We are afraid of new relationships, disappointments, emotional hurts, and broken hearts, so we don’t let people into our lives.
We build walls around us and sometimes they are too thick and high to allow us to go outside and see life for what it is.
Based on materials from mensxp